Hey, hey! I am officially 30 years old today. It feels only mildly depressing!
I’d like to share some things I’ve learned in my three decades on this planet.
This is more directed to 18 year old Monica. She was fresh out of high school, where the world was her oyster. That girl was equal parts brave and scared. She had a lot of hard lessons to learn and a lot of wonderful ones too.
So to you, 18-year old Monica, I tell you the following things you will have learned by your 30th birthday:
18-year old Monica, last thing: you are far from perfect and you are still trying to figure things out, but I am proud of you.
ashlee says
Happy 30th sweet friend! I'm lucky to know you! As someone who has been 30 for 2 1/2 years already I will tell you it's not that bad. 30 was actually my very best year! I met the greatest man and got sealed to him in that year! I love your list though. It's amazing to think how different we are from our 18 year old selves. We all need to remember those things and keep at it. You will have a great year! 30 will be wonderful things for and I'm sure a few hard, but it's more fun to think about the wonderful!
thack says
Love your list and blog, cute Monica! I, too, remember feeling that way about 30, but similar to Ashlee, I loved my 30th year. It was one of the best. And look at all the wisdom you've gained in the last ten years that will shape how you live the next decade: much more grounded and focused on things that truly matter. xoxo
Tyson and Heather says
Awesome. Really enjoyed this one. Happy b day Moni
Monica Packer says
I'm so glad to hear that your 30th was so fantastic, because you deserve it so much! Thank you for being one of my dearest friends still.
Monica Packer says
Liz!! So fun to hear from you. I love the idea of being more grounded! Let us hope I can learn to focus on things that really matter. Thanks for writing!
Monica Packer says
Oh, thank you!! I read both of your letters this morning and they really, really cheered my heart. I love you two and would LOVE to move next door, if you can handle us!